Win Back Ex Husband Wife Boyfriend Girlfriend Because it Seems Easier Than You Think

Win Back Ex Husband Wife Boyfriend Girlfriend because it seems Easier than You Think

 

 

 

 

Is this what you really want? You can win back ex girlfriends, wives, husbands, and boyfriends, whatever it is you lost. All you need is to understand a few psychological phenomena. You can stack the deck in your favours, if you know what to say and do.

We need to first analyze your relationship. If you were an exclusive couple for less than 6 months, you need to just move on… Let it go, and find someone else. If your history together was longer, you can win back an ex with a well defined plan of action.

Understand this; your ex does not want to be alone. People are pack animals, and want a mate by nature. It is not too late if they have invested time and emotion with you. Life is full of paradoxes, and here is a big one. If you want to win back an ex, you have to pretend you do not want them.

What I mean is this, call your ex and tell them you agree with the break up and it was a good idea. Then do not elaborate, do not go further, do not explain, and whatever you do, do not tell them you want to be friends. They must believe it is totally over in your eyes.

Next item, make no contact for three to four weeks. No asking their friends about them, email, comments on MySpace, texting, nothing. That means none. Their loneliness (yours too) will peak at three weeks. This is when they are the most vulnerable. If your ex contacts you in the three weeks of silence, great. But you must initiate contact for three or four weeks, unless you made a fool of yourself at the beginning, then give it a couple extra weeks.

Now call them and invite them for an innocent rendezvous, like coffee or lunch. If you keep it innocent and on their turf, they know they can get away quick and are more likely to agree. When you meet keep it light. You need to act like it is a first date, because it is. Make your ex laugh, the sooner the better, then they will relax. Since they haven’t seen you, they have forgotten most of your faults and only remember the fun you had together.

Have your ex remember some of the pleasant memories you had together. This is important. You know your ex better than you think, pay attention to HOW they talk, notice the speed, tone and inflection they use. Do they use picture words, sound words, or feeling words? (Like I see (picture) what you’re saying. I hear (sound) what you’re saying. What your saying feels good (feeling).) Use these same kinds of words back to them in the same pitch, tone, and speed that they do.

Match and mirror their body language. If they cross their legs, cross yours. If they lean to one side, do the same. Be somewhat subtle, not like a 6 year old and you will not get caught. Breath at the same rate that they do. Once you do this for a couple of minutes, you move and see if they do too. Touch your napkin, and see if they touch theirs. If they do, you have built enough rapport to clinch them back into your life.

Take it slow and learn more about human nature, you only have three weeks to learn everything you need to know. Develop a plan and learn all the secret psychological tricks of the trade.

 

 

Indeed, life is short. Don’t let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.

 

 

I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.

 

 

 

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Jim Lim Da Hong, sgtopmarketseller@gmail.com, Freelance SelfEmployed Graduate